Easy to differentiate?Maybe it's easy for some of you........depending on the person.But it can be difficult for others.Both are equally beautiful,but in different ways.Both are mutual,both can be forever,but most people can't think of them being together.Weird,isn't it???
Today,many of us reap benefits from being involved in both these relationships.There are moments of happiness and joy.They don't make us feel lonely or bored.We are always occupied by the way these wonderful relationships build up to fill in the missing jigsaw pieces of our lives.We always look to closer the ties between us by actively involving and sharing certain important elements in our lives.We always look forward to spend time with each other in these relationships so that we will never lose them.
They have their own problems as well.Miscommunication leads to various troubles.We constantly argue over small issues,but tend to make up after that.We have different thoughts about certain things.....and always talk about those things to listen to each other's views.There can be issues of bad luck...which might result in break ups.Things can also get nasty if family members interfere too much in both relationships.Both of them seem so similar.....then why are they different?
Last night,I watched a very nice movie.It was a love story and the way it was taken really made me think and realise so many things.It started off with two people meeting at a movie shooting.Eventually,they fell in love with each other.They were really interested in each other,but religion separated them.The girl's parents didn't approve their relationship.The girl loved her parents very much...so she asked the boy to leave her......while she suffered emotionally.She called off her wedding to the man of her father's choice at the last minute.She then leaves to the United States in search of a new life.
A few years past,and the hero of the movie becomes a movie director.He goes to US to film a movie.There he meets his previous girlfriend.She is married and walks away without talking to him.The hero feels disappointed but this event actually inspires him to make a movie about the story of his previous lover.In the movie,the girlfriend isn't married at the time they meet in US and they fall in love again.When the previous girlfriend actually watches the movie,she feels touched but hides her feeling because she was already married to another guy.The ending of the story is really touching but I just don't know how to explain it in words.What do you think,intentional friendship or unintentional love?
To tell the truth,there are a lot of differences between friendship and love.The most dominant one will be about the way you feel about someone.You will always like your friends....no doubt about it.You like to mingle around with them.You enjoy playing games and joking with them.You share your everyday stories with them.You laugh around and always help each other out in certain things in life.
When you are in love,your feeling towards that person would be different.There will be a longing to be by that person. You will always care about that person.......look after that person when she/he is sick.You always protect that person.Happiness is achieved by spending time together at a peaceful place.You always enjoy facing life's challenges with your loved ones once you are married.You may seem angry over them at times,but you will never let them go away.
The facts are pretty simple.......but why are there so many people still breaking up after committing themselves to relationships?It's because they don't really realise the difference between attraction of friendship and love.Attraction will go off after some time.If you lost your attraction to some one,after some time.....you would think why did you even fall for that person in the first place.The feeling of love doesn't really go off easily.It stays there for some time.It hurts to see the person you love being close to some one else.
So friends......make your decisions wisely.It's not wrong to feel attracted to a person because teenage hormones do respond to the presence of the opposite sex.If you think you are in love with some one,think first if you want to spend your life with that person.Think if you can always tolerate with each other.If you think that you don't want that particular person as your life partner,brush away the feelings.Unwanted feelings always get in the way of happiness.Live your life to the maximum.
Am I in love???I'm not sure myself.I just want to let some time pass before I make my decision.Until some one brushes the "just friends" fog in my brain,I'll not know if I'm in love with her and I'll continue being a very good friend to that very special person in my life..........
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